He does not consider my feelings or consult me when he makes big decisions.
He is impossible to reach for periods at a time or ignores me.
I sometimes feel he is a different person to outsiders than he is to me.
He is in friendly contact with other women and claims it's innocent.
I have the feeling he does not approve of me pursuing activities that don't involve him.
He says I ask too much from him (time, attention, commitment, etcetera).
Others have warned me about him (your family, friends or people he used to know).
I feel like I put in more into the relationship than he does.
He threatens with divorce or break-up during arguments.
I have caught him lying about innocent things.
I have caught him lying about big things.
He has had a lot of relationships in the past.
He often speaks badly about others.
He is dealing with mental health issues and/or addiction (or has in the past).